β Lesson 3.2: Reported Questions, Requests & Commands
In Lesson 3.1 you learned to report what people say. But real conversations are full of questions ("Where do you live?"), requests ("Could you help me?"), and commands ("Sit down!"). This lesson shows you how to report all three β and the surprising word-order rule that trips up almost every learner.
π What You'll Learn
By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:
- Report wh- questions and yes/no questions using the same backshift you learned in Lesson 3.1
- Use if and whether to report yes/no questions
- Keep statement word order (subject + verb) in reported questions β no do/does/did, no question mark
- Report commands and requests with told / asked + to-infinitive, including the negative
β±οΈ Estimated Time: ~55 minutes
π― Project: Report a short interview or conversation β real or invented (e.g. a job interview or asking for directions) β with at least 6 reported questions and commands.
In This Lesson
Beyond Statements
In Lesson 3.1 you mastered reported statements: you moved the verb one step back in time (backshift) and adjusted the pronouns. "I am tired" β She said she was tired. That backshift doesn't go away here β you'll use it again in every example below.
What changes is the shape of the sentence. Questions and commands aren't statements, so we have to reshape them before we report them. The single most important idea in this lesson is this: a reported question is no longer a question. It becomes part of a longer statement β so it loses its question word order, its do/does/did, and its question mark.
π§ Mindset
This is the lesson where lots of learners say "but that feels wrong!" β because your ear is used to hearing questions with did and rising intonation. Trust the rule over the feeling for a few weeks, and soon the correct version will be the one that feels natural. Every fluent speaker went through exactly this stage. You're not struggling; you're rewiring. π±
Reported Wh- Questions
A wh- question starts with a question word: where, what, when, who, why, how. To report it, use a reporting verb (usually asked), keep the question word, and then β this is the key β write the rest as a normal statement.
β οΈ THE key rule β statement word order
Inside a reported question, use subject + verb (statement order). Remove do / does / did. Remove the question mark.
β She asked where did I live. β β She asked where I lived.
The word order flips from question (verb before subject / with an auxiliary) back to statement (subject before verb). Then apply the same backshift from Lesson 3.1 (live β lived).
| Direct question | Reported question |
|---|---|
| She asked, "Where do you live?" | She asked where I lived. |
| He asked, "What are you doing?" | He asked what I was doing. |
| They asked, "Why did you leave?" | They asked why I had left. |
| She asked, "When will the train arrive?" | She asked when the train would arrive. |
| He asked, "Who is that man?" | He asked who that man was. |
π Two-step recipe
Step 1 β Reshape: keep the wh- word, then put subject before verb and delete do/does/did and the "?".
Step 2 β Backshift: move the verb one tense back, just like Lesson 3.1 (do β did, am β was, will β would, can β could).
"How does it work?" β keep how β statement order it works β backshift β He asked how it worked.
π‘ Note β the reporting verb. For questions we almost always use ask: ask (someone) + wh-. A useful alternative is want to know: She wanted to know where I lived. We do not use say to report a question.
Yes/No Questions: If & Whether
A yes/no question has no question word β you could answer it with "yes" or "no" (Are you ready? Do you smoke?). There's no wh- word to reuse, so we join the reported version with if or whether. They mean the same thing here; whether is a little more formal.
| Direct yes/no question | Reported question (if / whether) |
|---|---|
| He asked, "Are you ready?" | He asked if / whether I was ready. |
| She asked, "Do you speak French?" | She asked if / whether I spoke French. |
| They asked, "Did you enjoy it?" | They asked if / whether I had enjoyed it. |
| He asked, "Can you swim?" | He asked if / whether I could swim. |
| She asked, "Have you finished?" | She asked if / whether I had finished. |
The same rule from the wh- section applies: after if/whether, use statement word order, drop do/does/did, drop the question mark, and backshift the verb.
β Quick test β wh- or if/whether?
Does the original question start with a question word (where, what, whyβ¦)? Keep that word. If it starts with a verb or auxiliary (Areβ¦, Doβ¦, Didβ¦, Canβ¦, Haveβ¦), it's a yes/no question β use if or whether.
Commands & Requests
Commands ("Sit down!") and requests ("Please help me") use a completely different structure β and a nice, simple one. There's no backshift and no that-clause. Instead we use:
π The form
tell / ask + person + to + base verb
Negative: tell / ask + person + not to + base verb
"Sit down!" β She told me to sit down.
"Please help me." β He asked me to help him.
"Don't worry." β She told me not to worry.
| Direct command / request | Reported (to-infinitive) |
|---|---|
| "Sit down!" | She told me to sit down. |
| "Please help me." | He asked me to help him. |
| "Don't be late." | She told us not to be late. |
| "Please don't touch it." | He asked me not to touch it. |
| "Open the window, please." | She asked me to open the window. |
| "Wait here." | He told them to wait there. |
π‘ tell vs ask. Use tell for an order or instruction (the speaker has authority): The teacher told us to be quiet. Use ask for a polite request: She asked me to close the door. Notice both need a person after them β told me, asked him β you can't say "She told to sit down." β
β Other reporting verbs + to-infinitive
Many verbs follow the same verb + person + to pattern, and they let you report the tone precisely:
- order β He ordered them to leave. (strong command)
- advise β She advised me to rest. (recommendation)
- warn β He warned us not to go there. (danger)
- remind β She reminded me to call the bank. (a nudge to not forget)
Here's a short exchange, then the same thing reported afterwards:
Coach: Warm up first. Don't run too fast at the start.
Runner: Could you time me, please?
Coach: Sure. Remember to breathe.
Reported: The coach told the runner to warm up first and not to run too fast at the start. The runner asked the coach to time him. The coach reminded him to breathe.
All Three Together
You now have three reporting patterns from Lessons 3.1 and 3.2. This one table is your master summary β memorize the joining word and the shape for each type.
| Type | Join with | Shape | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| Statement (3.1) | that (optional) | backshifted clause | She said (that) she was tired. |
| Wh- question | the wh- word | statement order + backshift, no "?" | She asked where I lived. |
| Yes/No question | if / whether | statement order + backshift, no "?" | She asked if I was ready. |
| Command / Request | β | person + (not) to + base verb | She told me to wait. |
π‘ The big picture
Statements use that + a clause. Questions use if/whether or a wh- word, followed by statement word order. Commands and requests use the to-infinitive. Three shapes β pick by what the person originally did: told you something, asked you something, or told you to do something.
graph TD
A["What did the person do?"] --> B{"Statement, question, or command?"}
B -->|"Statement"| S["that + backshifted clause"]
B -->|"Wh- question"| W["wh- word + statement order"]
B -->|"Yes/No question"| Y["if or whether + statement order"]
B -->|"Command or request"| C["told/asked + person + to + verb"]
π Hear It & Repeat β Model Sentences
Listen to each model sentence, then say it back. Use the π§ Audio control (bottom-right) to choose a UK or US voice and slow the speed down. Listen for how we report questions, requests, and commands with asked and told.
- She asked me where I lived.
- He asked if I had seen the movie.
- The teacher asked us to open our books.
- My mother told me not to be late.
- They wanted to know when the train would leave.
Practice & Project
ποΈ Exercise 1: Report the questions
Objective: Rewrite each question as a reported question. Watch the word order, add if/whether for yes/no questions, and backshift.
- She asked, "Where do you work?" β She asked
- He asked, "What time does the movie start?" β He asked
- They asked, "Are you hungry?" β They asked
- She asked, "Did you call your mother?" β She asked
- He asked, "Can you drive?" β He asked
β Answer
1. She asked where I worked.
2. He asked what time the movie started.
3. They asked if / whether I was hungry.
4. She asked if / whether I had called my mother.
5. He asked if / whether I could drive.
ποΈ Exercise 2: Report the commands & requests
Objective: Use told / asked + person + (not) to + verb. Choose tell for orders and ask for polite requests.
- The teacher: "Open your books." β The teacher told
- My friend: "Please wait for me." β My friend asked
- The doctor: "Don't eat before the test." β The doctor told
- Mom: "Please don't be late." β Mom asked
- The guide: "Stay together." β The guide told
β Answer
1. The teacher told us to open our books.
2. My friend asked me to wait for him/her.
3. The doctor told me not to eat before the test.
4. Mom asked me not to be late.
5. The guide told us to stay together.
ποΈ Exercise 3: Fix the mistake
Objective: Each reported question has one error β a leftover do/did, a question mark, or question word order. Correct it.
- She asked where did I live? β
- He asked what time does the store open. β
- They asked was I ready. β (missing joining word)
- I asked him why was he angry. β
- She asked me did I like coffee. β
β Answer
1. She asked where I lived. (remove "did" and the "?", use statement order)
2. He asked what time the store opened. (remove "does", backshift)
3. They asked if/whether I was ready. (add if/whether)
4. I asked him why he was angry. (statement order: subject before verb)
5. She asked me if/whether I liked coffee. (remove "did", add if/whether, backshift)
π― Your Project: Report an Interview
You're going to report a short conversation. It can be real (something that happened to you) or invented β a job interview, asking a stranger for directions, a doctor's appointment, a police interview. Speak it aloud or write it, whichever you prefer.
- (5 min) Write a short direct dialogue of 8β10 lines with a mix of wh- questions, yes/no questions, and at least two commands or requests. Example opener: "Where did you study?" "Do you have experience?" "Please tell me about yourself."
- (10 min) Rewrite the whole thing as a report, using asked / wanted to know / told. Aim for 6 or more reported questions and commands in total.
- (3 min) Include at least one if/whether yes/no question and one negative command (told me not toβ¦).
- (2 min) Read your report aloud, or record it. Check every reported question for the three traps: no do/did, no "?", statement word order.
β Project Completion Checklist
- β I reported 6+ questions and commands in total
- β Every reported question uses statement word order (no do/does/did, no "?")
- β I used if or whether for at least one yes/no question
- β I used told/asked + person + to for commands, including one negative
- β I applied the backshift from Lesson 3.1 throughout
Solo option: record the report into your phone and listen back. Partner/class option: one person performs the original dialogue; the other reports it live from memory.
π― Quick Quiz
Question 1: Which is the correct reported question for "Where do you live?"
Question 2: Report this command: "Don't touch the paint."
Tips & Common Mistakes
β Do's
- After the wh- word or if/whether, immediately switch to subject + verb β say it in your head as a statement first.
- Delete do/does/did and the question mark every single time. They belong to real questions, not reported ones.
- Always name the person after tell/ask: told me, asked them.
- Put not before to for negative commands: asked me not to worry.
β Common Mistakes
β οΈ Watch Out
- Keeping question order: "She asked where did I live" β β "She asked where I lived" β .
- Leaving a question mark: "He asked if I was ready?" β β "He asked if I was ready." β (it's a statement now).
- Dropping if/whether: "He asked was I ready" β β "He asked if/whether I was ready" β .
- Forgetting the person: "She told to sit down" β β "She told me to sit down" β .
- Wrong negative: "She told me to not worry" β β "She told me not to worry" β .
π Learning Journal
Keep your learning journal going. After this lesson, take a few minutes to write down:
- Key concepts you learned
- Things that clicked for you
- Questions or confusion points to revisit
- Ideas you want to try
- Your progress and feelings about reaching B1
βοΈ This lesson's prompt: Think of the last time someone asked you a question and gave you an instruction on the same day (a colleague, a family member, a salesclerk). Write both down first as direct speech ("Where are you going?" / "Call me later."), then report them ("She asked me where I was going." / "She told me to call her later."). Underline the moment where the question word order changes β that's the habit you're building.
π Lesson Summary
π Key Takeaways
- A reported question is no longer a question: use statement word order, remove do/does/did, and remove the question mark.
- Wh- questions keep the question word; yes/no questions join with if or whether.
- Report questions with ask (or want to know), and apply the same backshift as Lesson 3.1.
- Commands & requests = tell/ask + person + (not) to + base verb β no backshift, no that.
π What You've Accomplished
You can now report an entire conversation β not just what people said, but what they asked and what they told you to do. That's a huge step toward retelling stories, summarizing meetings, and passing on messages naturally. Together with Lesson 3.1, you've got the full reported-speech toolkit. π
β Common Questions at This Stage
Is there any difference between "if" and "whether"?
In reported yes/no questions they're almost always interchangeable. Whether sounds slightly more formal and is preferred before or not right after it ("whether or not I could come") and before a to-infinitive ("whether to stay"). For everyday speaking, if is perfectly fine.
Do I always have to backshift in reported questions?
The same rule as Lesson 3.1 applies: backshift is standard, but if the situation is still true or you're reporting immediately, you can keep the present ("She asked where I live" if you still live there). When in doubt, backshift β it's always safe.
What's the difference between "tell" and "say" here?
For commands, use tell/ask + person + to β never say. Say doesn't take a person + to-infinitive: "She said me to go" β. Remember: you tell someone to do something, but you just say something.
π Looking Ahead
In Lesson 3.3 we move from reporting to relative clauses β the who / which / that / where structures that let you add information and combine two sentences into one smooth sentence ("The man who called you is my boss"). It's the next big tool for sounding fluent and connected.
β Before the Next Lesson
- Report five questions someone asks you today β three wh-, two yes/no.
- Report three instructions using told/asked me toβ¦, including one negative.
- Finish your interview report project and write your Learning Journal entry.
π Encouragement for the Journey
Reported speech is one of those skills that quietly unlocks real conversation: telling a friend what your boss said, passing on directions, summarizing a chat. You've just doubled your range by adding questions and commands to statements. The word-order rule felt strange at first β and now it's yours. Onward to relative clauses in Lesson 3.3! π