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πŸ”§ Lesson 6.2: Gerunds & Infinitives β€” Verb Patterns & Meaning

When one verb follows another, English makes a choice: I enjoy swimming but I want to swim. Why -ing in one and to in the other? At A2 you met the basics; now you'll build a real command of these verb patterns β€” including the intriguing verbs whose meaning changes depending on which form you pick. Master this and your English will sound far more natural and precise.

πŸ“š What You'll Learn

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:

  • Use verb + -ing and verb + to-infinitive after the right verbs
  • Use verb + object + to-infinitive (tell someone to do)
  • Use -ing after prepositions and as the subject of a sentence
  • Handle the meaning-change verbs β€” stop, remember, forget, try

⏱️ Estimated Time: 55–60 minutes

🎯 Project: Talk for two minutes about your habits, plans, and preferences, using at least ten different verb-pattern structures from this lesson.

In This Lesson

Two Verbs Together

Very often we want to put two verbs side by side: enjoy + read, want + go, decide + stay. When that happens, the second verb has to take one of two forms:

πŸ“– The two forms

The gerund (-ing): the verb acting like a noun β€” swimming, reading, working.

The to-infinitive: to + base verb β€” to swim, to read, to work.

Which one you use depends mostly on the first verb. Some first verbs demand -ing, others demand to, and a few allow either.

At A2 you learned the everyday pairs β€” I like reading, I want to go. At B1 we widen the net: more verbs, new structures (-ing after prepositions and as a subject), and the special verbs that switch meaning when you switch the form. Here's the shape of the whole lesson:

graph LR
    A["First verb"] --> B["takes -ing"]
    A --> C["takes to-infinitive"]
    A --> D["takes object then to"]
    E["After a preposition"] --> B
    F["As a subject"] --> B
                

🧠 Mindset

There is no single rule that tells you "this verb takes -ing, that one takes to" β€” it's mostly a matter of learning the common verbs in groups and hearing them often. That might sound like bad news, but it's actually freeing: you don't have to work anything out, you just have to notice and collect. Learn the frequent verbs, meet them in real sentences, and the patterns settle in through use. Progress here comes from exposure, not from stress. 🌱

Verb + -ing

Some verbs are always followed by the -ing form. A useful group to memorize covers likes, dislikes, and the "start/stop/continue" family:

Verb + -ingExample
enjoyI enjoy cooking on the weekend.
avoidShe avoids driving in the city.
finishHave you finished reading it?
suggestHe suggested going out for dinner.
keepShe keeps forgetting her keys.
mindDo you mind waiting a moment?

Other common -ing verbs worth adding to your collection: admit, imagine, practice, miss, can't stand, feel like, give up, spend time.

πŸ’‘ A memory trick for the -ing group

Many -ing verbs are about experiences and reactions β€” enjoying, avoiding, not minding, finishing, giving up. Think of the -ing form as the "activity itself," pictured as a whole: "I enjoy swimming" = the experience of swimming pleases me. That mental picture won't be perfect, but it helps many of these feel natural.

πŸ“Œ Note: This builds directly on the basic -ing / to patterns from A2. The verbs are new, but the shape β€” first verb + second verb in -ing β€” is one you've already seen with like, love, and hate.

Verb + to-infinitive

A second big group of verbs is followed by the to-infinitive. Many of these look forward β€” to decisions, hopes, plans, and promises:

Verb + toExample
wantI want to travel more.
decideWe decided to stay at home.
hopeShe hopes to pass the exam.
promiseHe promised to help me.
learnI'm learning to drive.
offerThey offered to pay for dinner.
refuseShe refused to answer.
manageWe managed to finish on time.

More to collect: agree, plan, expect, would like, need, seem, prepare, arrange, afford.

πŸ’‘ A memory trick for the "to" group

Many to-verbs point forward in time β€” you want, hope, plan, decide, promise, offer to do something in the future. The little arrow of to matches the forward-looking meaning. Again, it's not a rule you can rely on completely, but it's a helpful nudge for a lot of these verbs.

Verb + Object + to

Some verbs need a person (object) in the middle before the to-infinitive. The pattern is verb + someone + to do. These are the verbs of asking, telling, wanting, and advising β€” where you're getting another person to do something.

Pattern: verb + object + toExample
want someone toI want you to listen carefully.
tell someone toShe told him to wait outside.
ask someone toHe asked me to help him.
advise someone toThe doctor advised her to rest.

More in this group: allow, expect, encourage, remind, invite, warn, teach, persuade.

⚠️ Don't drop the person after tell / ask

These verbs need the object. Compare:

  • ❌ She told to wait.  β†’  βœ… She told him to wait.
  • ❌ He asked to help him. (changes the meaning β€” now he wants to help)  β†’  βœ… He asked me to help him.

This connects to the say/tell work from earlier: tell always wants a listener, and here it wants one before the to-infinitive too.

-ing After Prepositions & as Subject

Two more places always take the -ing form β€” and they trip learners up because there's no other verb before them signaling the choice.

After a preposition

When a verb comes straight after a preposition (at, in, of, about, before, after, without, instead of), it must be -ing. A preposition is never followed by to + base verb.

Preposition phraseExample
good atShe's good at drawing.
interested inI'm interested in learning Italian.
before / afterAfter finishing work, I went home.
instead ofWe walked instead of taking the bus.
tired ofHe's tired of waiting.

⚠️ The famous "to" trap

In some fixed phrases, to is a preposition, not part of an infinitive β€” so it takes -ing:

  • I'm looking forward to seeing you. (not "to see")
  • I'm used to getting up early. (not "to get")

Test: can you put a noun after to? "looking forward to the trip" works, so this to is a preposition β†’ use -ing.

As the subject of a sentence

When an action is the subject β€” the thing the sentence is about β€” English uses the -ing form:

Swimming is good for you.

Learning a language takes time.

Getting up early is hard in winter.

Here the -ing word behaves like a noun and sits at the front as the subject.

I'm good at cooking. Thanks for helping me. Reading is my favorite hobby. I look forward to meeting you. Before leaving, check the door.

Verbs That Change Meaning

Here's the most fascinating part. A small set of verbs can take either form β€” but the meaning changes completely depending on which you choose. These are worth learning carefully, because the difference is real and speakers rely on it.

Verb+ -ing+ to
stopstop doing = end the activity
I stopped smoking. (I quit)
stop to do = pause in order to do
I stopped to smoke. (paused for a cigarette)
rememberremember doing = a memory of the past
I remember locking the door.
remember to do = don't forget a task
Remember to lock the door.
forgetforget doing = forget a memory
I'll never forget meeting her.
forget to do = fail to do a task
I forgot to call him.
trytry doing = experiment / test it
Try turning it off and on.
try to do = make an effort
I tried to open the jar.

πŸ“– The clearest pair: stop

stop + -ing = the activity ends. "He stopped working" means he no longer works.

stop + to = you stop one thing in order to do another. "He stopped to work" means he paused (from something else) so that he could work.

The to here means "in order to" β€” it shows a purpose.

Lena: Did you remember to bring the tickets?

Marco: Yes! And I clearly remember putting them in my bag last night.

Lena: Good. On the way, can we stop to get a coffee?

Marco: Sure. I've been trying to cut down, but I'll never stop drinking it completely!

βœ… How to keep them straight

For remember and forget, ask: past memory or future task? Memory of what already happened β†’ -ing. A task still ahead of you β†’ to. For stop and try, ask: am I ending/testing something (-ing), or pausing-for-a-purpose / making an effort (to)?

πŸ”Š Hear It & Repeat β€” Model Sentences

Listen to each model sentence, then say it back. Use the 🎧 Audio control (bottom-right) to choose a UK or US voice and slow the speed down. Notice which verbs take -ing and which take to, and how the meaning-change verbs work.

  • I enjoy cooking, but I want to learn to bake bread.
  • She asked me to help her, so I agreed to stay late.
  • I'm interested in learning Spanish before traveling next year.
  • Please remember to lock the door when you leave.
  • He stopped smoking last year and he feels much better now.

Practice & Project

πŸ‹οΈ Exercise 1: Put the verb in the correct form (-ing or to)

Objective: Type the verb in parentheses as either the -ing form or to + base verb, depending on the first verb or the preposition.

  1. I enjoy (read) before bed.
  2. She decided (stay) at home.
  3. Do you mind (wait) a few minutes?
  4. He's very good at (cook).
  5. They offered (pay) for the meal.
  6. I'm looking forward to (see) you soon.
βœ… Answer

1. reading (enjoy + -ing) Β· 2. to stay (decide + to) Β· 3. waiting (mind + -ing) Β· 4. cooking (after "at") Β· 5. to pay (offer + to) Β· 6. seeing ("to" here is a preposition β†’ -ing)

πŸ‹οΈ Exercise 2: Choose the meaning (stop, remember, try…)

Objective: Type the verb in parentheses as -ing or to + base verb so the sentence matches the meaning in italics.

  1. On the drive, we stopped (have) lunch. (we paused in order to eat)
  2. The doctor told him to stop (eat) so much sugar. (end the habit)
  3. Please remember (mail) the letter. (a future task)
  4. I remember (meet) her at a party years ago. (a past memory)
  5. My laptop froze, so I tried (restart) it. (I tested this as a solution)
βœ… Answer

1. to have (stopped in order to eat) Β· 2. eating (end the habit) Β· 3. to mail (future task) Β· 4. meeting (past memory) Β· 5. restarting (tested it as a solution)

πŸ‹οΈ Exercise 3: Rewrite with verb + object + to

Objective: Combine each pair into one sentence using the pattern verb + someone + to do.

  1. "Please wait outside." She told me… β†’ She told me to wait outside.
  2. "Can you help me?" He asked me… β†’
  3. "You should rest." The doctor advised her… β†’
  4. "Come to my party!" They invited us… β†’
  5. "Don't touch the wire." She warned him… β†’
βœ… Answer

1. She told me to wait outside.
2. He asked me to help him.
3. The doctor advised her to rest.
4. They invited us to come to their party.
5. She warned him not to touch the wire.

🎯 Your Project: Two Minutes on Habits, Plans & Preferences

Turn the patterns into fluent speech. Speak out loud β€” to a partner, in class, or into your phone's recorder.

  1. (3 min) Jot down notes under three headings: habits (things you enjoy / avoid / keep doing), plans (things you want / hope / have decided to do), and preferences (what you're good at / interested in).
  2. (5 min) Turn your notes into full sentences, using at least ten different structures from this lesson β€” verb + -ing, verb + to, verb + object + to, and -ing after prepositions.
  3. (3 min) Include at least one meaning-change verb (stop, remember, forget, try) and one -ing subject ("Learning to cook is fun").
  4. (2 min) Speak for about two minutes without stopping. Record it if you can.
  5. (2 min) Listen back (or ask your partner): did you ever use to where -ing was needed, or the reverse? Fix and re-say two sentences.

βœ… Project Completion Checklist

  • ☐ I spoke for about two minutes about habits, plans, and preferences
  • ☐ I used at least ten different verb-pattern structures
  • ☐ I used verb + -ing and verb + to correctly
  • ☐ I used verb + object + to (told/asked someone to…)
  • ☐ I included a meaning-change verb and an -ing subject
  • ☐ I checked and corrected at least two of my sentences

🎯 Quick Quiz

Question 1: Which sentence is correct?

Question 2: "We were driving all day, so we ___ lunch." Which means "we paused in order to eat"?

Tips & Common Mistakes

βœ… Do's

  • Learn the common verbs in groups (-ing verbs, to-verbs, object+to verbs) rather than one by one.
  • After any preposition β€” at, in, of, before, after, without β€” always use -ing.
  • Use the -ing form when an action is the subject ("Reading helps.").
  • For stop, remember, forget, try, decide the meaning first, then pick the form.

❌ Common Mistakes

⚠️ Watch Out

  • Wrong form after the verb: "I enjoy to cook" ❌ β†’ "I enjoy cooking" βœ….
  • to + base after a preposition: "good at to draw" ❌ β†’ "good at drawing" βœ….
  • The "looking forward to" trap: "looking forward to see you" ❌ β†’ "looking forward to seeing you" βœ….
  • Missing the person: "She told to wait" ❌ β†’ "She told me to wait" βœ….
  • Confusing meaning-change verbs: "I stopped to smoke" (= paused for a cigarette) when you mean "I quit" β†’ "I stopped smoking" βœ….

πŸ““ Learning Journal

Keep your learning journal going. After this lesson, take a few minutes to write down:

  • Key concepts you learned
  • Things that clicked for you
  • Questions or confusion points to revisit
  • Ideas you want to try
  • Your progress and feelings about reaching B1

✍️ This lesson's prompt: Start your own two-column collection. On the left, list five verbs that take -ing; on the right, five that take to. Write one true sentence about yourself with each. Then add one meaning-change verb (stop, remember, forget, or try) with both versions, and explain the difference in meaning in your own words. Keep adding to this list as you meet new verbs β€” a personal collection is the fastest way to make these patterns automatic.

πŸ“ Lesson Summary

πŸŽ“ Key Takeaways

  • Verb + -ing: enjoy, avoid, finish, suggest, keep, mind β€” learn them as a group.
  • Verb + to-infinitive: want, decide, hope, promise, learn, offer, refuse, manage β€” many look to the future.
  • Verb + object + to: want/tell/ask/advise someone to do β€” don't drop the person.
  • -ing always follows a preposition (good at drawing, looking forward to seeing) and works as a subject (Swimming is good).
  • Meaning-change verbs: stop / remember / forget / try β€” the -ing and to forms mean different things.

πŸŽ‰ What You've Accomplished

You've moved from the basic like / want patterns into a genuinely B1-level command of verb structures β€” enough to talk about habits, plans, and preferences with accuracy, and to catch the subtle meaning differences that fluent speakers rely on. This is the kind of grammar that quietly makes everything you say sound more natural. πŸŽ‰

❓ Common Questions at This Stage

Is there a rule to tell whether a verb takes -ing or to?

Not a reliable one, no. There are helpful hints (many to-verbs look forward; many -ing-verbs describe experiences), but the safest approach at B1 is to learn the common verbs in groups and meet them often in reading and listening. With exposure, the right form will start to sound correct.

What about "like" β€” is it "like doing" or "like to do"?

Both are correct and very common! "I like swimming" and "I like to swim" are nearly the same. A subtle difference: -ing often stresses enjoying the activity, while to can suggest a choice or habit ("I like to check my email in the morning"). For B1, treat them as interchangeable.

How is "to" a preposition in "looking forward to"? Isn't "to" always part of an infinitive?

Not always β€” that's the trap. In look forward to, be used to, and object to, the to is a preposition. The test: if you can put a noun after it ("looking forward to the weekend"), it's a preposition, so a following verb takes -ing: "looking forward to seeing you."

πŸ”­ Looking Ahead

Next, you'll fine-tune how you talk about amount and degree. In Lesson 6.3: Degree & Quantity, you'll master too / enough, the emphatic so / such … that, and the difference between (a) few and (a) little β€” the tools for saying precisely how much, how many, and to what extent.

βœ… Before the Next Lesson

  • Write five sentences about your week using five different verb patterns.
  • Say aloud both versions of stop, remember, and try, explaining each meaning.
  • Write your Learning Journal entry for this lesson.

🌟 Encouragement for the Journey

Verb patterns are less about clever rules and more about good company β€” the more real English you read and hear, the more these forms will simply feel right. You're not memorizing a dry list; you're tuning your ear. Keep collecting verbs, keep noticing how they behave, and one day soon you'll choose -ing or to without even thinking. Onward to Lesson 6.3! πŸ‘‹