π°οΈ Lesson 1.3: Used to & Would β Past Habits
How did your life use to be? Where did you use to live, and what would you do every summer? To tell those stories like a natural speaker, you need two tools that English keeps just for the past: used to and would. They both look back β but they don't do the same job, and this lesson gives you the judgment to pick the right one.
π What You'll Learn
By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:
- Use used to for past habits and past states that are no longer true
- Make negatives and questions correctly: didn't use to and Did ⦠use to�
- Use would for repeated past actions in a story or memory
- Know the key difference β and when would does not work
β±οΈ Estimated Time: ~50 minutes
π― Project: Describe how your life or your town was different in the past (your childhood, or ten years ago) in 6+ sentences, using used to and would.
In This Lesson
Looking Back
You already know the past simple: "I played tennis on Saturday." That's perfect for one finished event. But what about the things that were true again and again in the past, or true for a whole period of your life β and aren't true now? "I played tennis every day as a child" works, but English has warmer, more natural ways to say it: used to and would.
Both carry a quiet message: this was true then, but not any more. That contrast with now is the heart of the whole lesson. When you say "I used to smoke," everyone hears the unspoken second half: "β¦but I don't any more."
π§ Mindset
These two structures are where your English starts to sound like storytelling instead of reporting. Don't just aim to be correct β aim to be evocative. When you can say "Every summer we would drive to the coast, and there used to be a little ice-cream stand on the corner," you're not just passing a grammar test; you're painting a picture. That's the real prize of B1, and it's closer than you think. π±
Used To: Habits & States
used to + base verb describes something that was a habit or a state in the past β repeated or ongoing β that is not true now. It's the go-to structure for "how things were."
π The form
Subject + used to + base verb (the base verb never changes β never "used to went").
Habit (a repeated action): "I used to smoke ten cigarettes a day."
State (a situation, not an action): "She used to live in Rome." Β· "There used to be a movie theater here."
| Sentence with used to | What it means (the "not now" contrast) |
|---|---|
| I used to smoke. | I smoked regularly in the past β but I don't now. |
| She used to live in Rome. | Rome was her home for a period β she doesn't live there now. |
| There used to be a movie theater here. | A movie theater existed here in the past β it's gone now. |
| We used to be best friends. | We were close for a time β not any more. |
| He used to have long hair. | His hair was long back then β it isn't now. |
β The test for used to
Ask yourself: "Was this true in the past, and is it NOT true now?" If yes β a repeated habit or a long-lasting situation β used to fits. That "not now" contrast is exactly why we choose it over the plain past simple.
Negatives & Questions
Here's where learners slip, so slow down. In negatives and questions we use did / didn't β and after did, the spelling changes to use to (no final d).
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Positive | subject + used to + base verb | I used to walk to school. |
| Negative | subject + didn't use to + base verb | I didn't use to like coffee. |
| Question | Did + subject + use to + base verb? | Did you use to play an instrument? |
| Short answer | Yes/No + subject + did / didn't | Yes, I did. / No, I didn't. |
β οΈ Spelling: used to vs use to
Both sound almost identical when spoken (the "d" disappears), but the spelling follows a rule:
- Positive, no did β used to (with d): "I used to run."
- After did / didn't β use to (no d): "I didn't use to run." Β· "Did you use to run?"
The did already carries the past, so use stays in its base form β just like "I didn't want," not "I didn't wanted."
Would: Repeated Actions
would + base verb is the storyteller's tool. It describes repeated past actions β routines and typical behavior β especially when you're reminiscing or setting a scene.
π The form
Subject + would (+ always/often/every summerβ¦) + base verb
"Every summer we would visit my grandparents."
"He would always tell jokes at dinner."
"On Sundays my father would cook a huge breakfast for everyone."
Notice how each sentence has a time frame β "every summer," "at dinner," "on Sundays." That's important: would needs the past setting to be clear first. On its own, out of nowhere, "He would tell jokes" can be confused with a conditional ("if I asked him, he wouldβ¦"). Once the reader knows we're remembering the past, would flows naturally.
"When I was little, we lived on a farm. Every morning my grandmother would wake me at dawn, and we would feed the chickens together. Afterwards she would make pancakes, and the whole kitchen would smell of cinnamon."
Notice: the past simple ("lived") sets the scene, then would carries the repeated actions of the routine.
The Key Difference
This is the part to master. used to and would overlap for repeated actions β but they part ways completely when it comes to states.
π‘ The one rule to remember
used to works for BOTH actions and states.
would works ONLY for repeated actions β NOT for states.
A state is a situation, not an action you "do" again and again: live somewhere, like something, have something, be something, know someone. These are exactly where would breaks:
| Meaning | used to | would |
|---|---|---|
| State β liking something | I used to like dogs. β | I would like dogs. β (sounds like a wish) |
| State β living somewhere | I used to live in Rome. β | I would live in Rome. β |
| State β having something | She used to have a red car. β | She would have a red car. β |
| Repeated action | We used to visit them. β | We would visit them. β |
| Repeated action | He used to tell jokes. β | He would tell jokes. β |
graph TD
A["A past habit or situation, not true now"] --> B{"Is it a STATE? like, live, have, be, know"}
B -->|Yes| U["Use 'used to' only"]
B -->|"No, a repeated action"| C{"Is the past time frame already clear?"}
C -->|Yes| BOTH["'used to' OR 'would' both work"]
C -->|"Not yet"| U2["Prefer 'used to' to set it up"]
π‘ Remember: If you're unsure, used to is always safe β it covers everything would can do, plus states. Reach for would when you're already telling a past story and want variety and rhythm in your repeated actions.
Listen for both structures in this nostalgic conversation:
A: Do you remember the old neighborhood? There used to be a bakery right on the corner.
B: Of course! We would go there every Saturday after soccer. I used to love their cinnamon rolls.
A: And old Mr. Alvarez β he would always give us the broken cookies for free.
B: He did! I didn't use to appreciate it back then. The whole street used to feel like family.
A: It's all apartments now. It doesn't feel the same, does it?
Used To vs Past Simple
A quick but useful contrast. The past simple reports one finished event. used to describes a general habit or state over a period. Both are correct English β they just say different things.
| Past simple (one finished event / stated period) | Used to (general past habit or state) |
|---|---|
| I lived in Rome for two years. (a specific, finished stretch) | I used to live in Rome. (a general past state, not now) |
| I went to the gym on Monday. (one time) | I used to go to the gym. (a regular past habit) |
π‘ A note, so you don't get confused later
There is another expression that looks similar: be used to + -ing (e.g. "I am used to getting up early"), which means "accustomed to, comfortable with." That is a completely different structure β present, not past β and you'll study it in Confident English (B2), Lesson 2.3. For now, just flag it in your mind: today's used to + base verb is only about the past. Don't mix the two.
π Hear It & Repeat β Model Sentences
Listen to each model sentence, then say it back. Use the π§ Audio control (bottom-right) to choose a UK or US voice and slow the speed down. Listen for used to and would, which describe how things were in the past.
- I used to play soccer every weekend when I was young.
- We would spend our summers at my grandmother's house.
- She didn't use to like coffee, but now she drinks it every day.
- When I was a child, we would always eat dinner together.
- Did you use to have a bike when you were little?
Practice & Project
ποΈ Exercise 1: Complete with used to (+ / β / ?)
Objective: Write the correct positive, negative, or question form (mind the spelling!).
- I (play) the piano when I was young, but I stopped.
- She (not / like) vegetables as a child. (negative)
- you (have) a nickname at school? (question)
- There (be) a big oak tree in the garden.
- We (not / have) cell phones back then. (negative)
β Answer
1. used to play Β· 2. didn't use to like Β· 3. Did β¦ use to have Β· 4. used to be Β· 5. didn't use to have
ποΈ Exercise 2: used to or would?
Objective: Both are possible for repeated actions, but only used to works for states. Write which is allowed β "only used to" or "both."
- My grandfather (tell) us stories every night.
- I (live) near the sea when I was little.
- We (go) camping every August.
- She (have) a beautiful old bicycle.
- They (know) everyone in the village.
β Answer
1. both β used to tell / would tell (repeated action). 2. only used to β live is a state. 3. both β used to go / would go (repeated action). 4. only used to β have (= possess) is a state. 5. only used to β know is a state.
ποΈ Exercise 3: Rewrite as used to habits
Objective: Turn each past-simple fact into a general used to sentence (all of these are no longer true).
- When I was a teenager, I listened to punk music. β
- My town had a train station. β
- We ate dinner together every evening. β
- She was very shy at school. β
β Answer
1. When I was a teenager, I used to listen to punk music. Β· 2. My town used to have a train station. Β· 3. We used to eat dinner together every evening. Β· 4. She used to be very shy at school.
π― Your Project: How Things Used to Be
Describe how your life or your town was different in the past β your childhood, or ten years ago. Speak out loud to a partner, in class, or into your phone's recorder. Aim for 6+ sentences.
- (2 min) Choose your topic: your childhood home, your old routine, or how your town has changed.
- (2 min) Describe states with used to: where you used to live, what there used to be, what you used to like or have. (e.g. "There used to be a park where the mall is now.")
- (2 min) Describe repeated actions with would (and used to): what you would do every day, every weekend, every summer. (e.g. "Every Sunday we would walk to the market.")
- (1 min) Include at least one negative and one question: "I didn't use to like it⦠Did your street use to be quieter too?"
- (1 min) If you recorded it, listen back: did you use would only for actions, never for states? Check your use to spelling in negatives/questions.
β Project Completion Checklist
- β I spoke at least 6 sentences
- β I used used to for at least one state (live / have / be / there was)
- β I used would for at least one repeated action
- β I made one negative (didn't use to) and one question (Did β¦ use toβ¦?)
- β I did NOT use would for a state
π― Quick Quiz
Question 1: Which sentence is spelled correctly?
Question 2: "When I was young, I ___ have a dog." Which option is correct?
Tips & Common Mistakes
β Do's
- Use used to when you can feel the "β¦but not any more" contrast with the present.
- When unsure between the two, choose used to β it's always safe, for actions and states.
- Set the past scene first (a time frame or a past-simple sentence), then let would carry the repeated actions.
- In negatives and questions, drop the d: didn't use to, Did ⦠use to�
β Common Mistakes
β οΈ Watch Out
- Would with a state: "I would live in Rome" β β "I used to live in Rome" β (live is a state). Same with like, have, be, know.
- Spelling after did: "I didn't used toβ¦" β β "I didn't use toβ¦" β ; "Did you used toβ¦?" β β "Did you use toβ¦?" β
- Changing the base verb: "I used to went" β β "I used to go" β (the verb after used to stays base).
- Confusing it with be used to: "I used to getting up early" β for a past habit β "I used to get up early" β . (Be used to + -ing = accustomed to, a different structure.)
π Learning Journal
Keep your learning journal going. After this lesson, take a few minutes to write down:
- Key concepts you learned
- Things that clicked for you
- Questions or confusion points to revisit
- Ideas you want to try
- Your progress and feelings about reaching B1
βοΈ This lesson's prompt: Write three sentences about your past: one state with used to (e.g. "I used to be afraid of the dark"), one repeated action with would (e.g. "Every night my mother would read to me"), and one negative or question (e.g. "I didn't use to sleep well"). Then, beside each one, write in your own words why you chose that structure. Explaining the reason is how the choice becomes automatic.
π Lesson Summary
π Key Takeaways
- used to + base verb = a past habit or state that is no longer true ("I used to smoke," "There used to be a movie theater here").
- Negatives and questions use did and drop the d: didn't use to, Did ⦠use to�
- would + base verb = repeated past actions in a story ("Every summer we would visit them") β it needs a past time frame set first.
- The key rule: used to works for actions AND states; would works ONLY for repeated actions, never states.
π What You've Accomplished
You can now look back and tell the story of how things used to be β the places, the routines, the person you were. You've learned not just two structures but the judgment to choose between them, including the trap of using would where only used to belongs. That nuance is exactly what makes past storytelling sound natural. π
β Common Questions at This Stage
Can I always replace used to with would?
No β only for repeated actions. "We used to visit them" = "We would visit them" β . But for states, only used to works: "I used to have a bike" β , not "I would have a bike" β. When in doubt, used to is always safe.
Is "used to" different from "be used to"?
Yes, completely. used to + base verb (today's lesson) is about past habits: "I used to run." be used to + -ing means "accustomed to": "I am used to running." Same words, different grammar and meaning β you'll study the second one in Confident English (B2), Lesson 2.3.
Why does the "d" disappear in "didn't use to"?
Because did already carries the past tense, the main verb goes back to its base form β just like "I didn't want," not "I didn't wanted." So it's "didn't use to" and "Did you use toβ¦?" In speech you can't hear the difference; the rule matters only when you write.
π Looking Ahead
Next, we shift from the past to possibility. In Lesson 2.1, you'll learn the zero and first conditionals β how to talk about things that are always true ("If you heat ice, it melts") and real future possibilities ("If it rains, we'll stay in"). It's the beginning of "if" sentences, one of the most useful tools in English.
β Before the Next Lesson
- Tell someone three things that used to be true about your life but aren't any more.
- Describe one childhood routine using would (with a clear time frame).
- Write your Learning Journal entry for this lesson.
π Encouragement for the Journey
Every time you say "I used toβ¦" you're doing something quietly powerful: you're measuring how far you've come. The you that used to struggle with English is already becoming the you that tells stories in it. Keep looking back with warmth β and keep moving forward. Onward to Lesson 2.1! π